Hi Annabelle,

Your sister is choosing an incarcerated child rapist over her family. She is essentially saying that a convicted sexual abuser is more important than her nieces/nephews (and the child he abused). By contacting these types of low lifes in front of them, that sends a bad message. Abusers of any sort do not come before your family.

You simply cannot allow her to be in your home in contact with your children. This will send a powerful signal to her and your parents what is normal and acceptable. That the safety of your children and emotional wholesomeness come first.

There is no room for drama. Let her rage elsewhere. When your children ask what ever happened to auntie, say that “she has problems”.

Best,

Inky