I need to convince her that she can’t get me back because otherwise she won’t stop. She knows I’m weak for her temptation so she keeps trying to win me over. Eventually she will win.

Example: When I say that I don’t want her to talk about how much she loves me, she’ll talk about being lonely and being desperately in need of love. (This makes me want to give her love because I still have feelings for her. Not that intense but still)

Another example: When I tell her to stop touching me she will tell me that she wants to touch me. (Which I also like)

When I tell her to stop saying she wants to kiss me and have sex with me, she will talk about that she is in need for physical attention. (Which I also like because I want that too and she confirms that I can get that attention)

With every rule I set up, she finds something else to make me want her… I don’t want to ditch her as a friend, because I know we can perfectly be friends. I like her as a friend because she’s an entirely different person then. Right now I can laugh with her and she’ll support me with any problem I have.

When she’s conviced that she can’t get me back, she won’t try to win me over. I know her, she’s to proud of herself to flirt when she knows she has no chance for any result. I’m not saying I don’t like her flirty behavior but it’s to dangerous for someone like me. I really want to feel loved by a girl, but her love is bad for my mental health.

Regi