Dear Princess123:

My understanding is that you broke up with your boyfriend a couple of nights ago and you are confused, not understanding why you feel restless and unhappy after the breakup even though you believe you made the right decision and after being unhappy in the relationship with him.

In your second post you shared that you worry about him hurting following you breaking up with him, feeling guilty for hurting him. You wrote that he loves you a lot and treated you like a princess. Your relationship lasted 2.5 months, Feb-April this year.

During the relationship he called you every 30 minutes or so, wanting to know what you were doing when he called and during the time before he called, asking you why talk to whomever you talked to (male or female), how do you know them, where do they live and how is it that you didn’t tell him about that person before. He repeatedly checked your mobile phone, blocking people from contacting you, deleting texts meant for you. accused you of having contact with guy friends.

Last month you were financially broke and your cousin sent you 1000 euros. Your boyfriend blocked your cousin from contacting you because your cousin sometimes flirted with you on the phone.

As a result of being in a relationship with him, you started “shouting, being mad, frustrated, irritated…totally boycotting social life”. You started taking antidepressants.

To understand better, I ask:  you chose Princess123 to be your user name. You wrote about your (hopefully) ex boyfriend, he “treats me like a princess”-

how did he treat you like a princess?

anita