Dear Princess123:

You are welcome.

So he’s been treating you for dinner out, helping you with your studies, with cooking, with household chores, giving you massages and checking your mobile phone/deleting texts from your phone/blocking people on your phone/calling and texting you incessantly again and again/interrogating you.

Maybe he can’t help himself,  like you wrote, “he gets obsessed”.

If you accommodate his obsession, does it ever get to a place where he says: I trust you now, you can breathe?

Not likely, as it is not the nature of an obsession to be satisfied.

You wrote that you feel guilty for hurting him. Reads to me that you are not hurting him, that he is hurting himself and he has been hurting you. It is a natural consequence of his actions that you want to be free of his domination. It is not your job to protect him from the natural consequences of his actions.

anita