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actually as I met him and I cm to know his insecurities nd jealousy and trust issues .I asked him about his family.because I thought may be he has jealousy or insecurity just bcz he wasn’t given attention,time or love .
yes I know few things that he is the only son and his mom and dad court marriage and she came with his papa .and left her whole family to do court marriage .and he loves his mom and dad they have good relationship.
her mom was doing job and I thought may b his parents were busy and he was mostly alone thus he is having issues .but he added that his mom worked only two days per week and other days she was at home .
I also asked him about his dad ,that if he has the same problem as my bf.he said mom used to say that dad doubts on me but as they are togather more than 25 years now its better.
and something I notied whenever I did something for him he used to say ,no one did that for him before ,no one made him that much special ,,I felt that he thinks he doent deserve this .
but on the other hand I can see his family celebrated his last all birthdays and was given party .he was getting good marks he was a topper in school nd college his published papers are being published in a book or etc.he owns good computer skills along with his acadmics ,he is doing here master plus research.
a person who is that much talented ,why is he being needy?Clingy or Controlling ? and he is very handsome as well .he is more good looking than me and most of other guys . I find nothing wrong appearently which caused his these issues
his previous gf left him for the same reason ..he couldn’t trust her nd he was very jealous..and he doesn’t believe In long distance relationship..
when I told him that I ll go to my home country in semester break ,he was very sad and was saying how can u go without me .