Dear Princess123:

You wrote: “whenever I did something for him he used to say, no one did that for him before, no one made him that much special”. This is very telling, after all, he told you that “no one made him that much special”- no one includes his mother and father and all of his family members.

You asked him a good question about whether his parents were too busy to attend to him. He told you that his mother worked only two times a week- if she was home with him, her only son, four times a week, and part of the two she worked, it doesn’t mean she paid much attention to him.

Example: my mother was very nice to other children in my presence. She talked to them with lots of kindness. But not to me when she was alone with me. She asked them questions and listened to their answers attentively. She didn’t ask me questions when alone with me. When alone with me she complained a lot about her life. She didn’t complain to others. So I was very jealous, very, very jealous of the others.

anita