ann,

I have the same question as anita: why was your friend angry? I assume you enjoyed and had no problems with how your friendship was going. She wouldn’t have become upset enough in a short span of time to end your friendship, so she may have been holding onto small (normal) annoyances between you two for a long time that snowballed into an overwhelming anxiety. She may have also depended on you more than she realized and projected her fears onto you and your actions. If I understand you correctly, it sounds like she made a lot of topics revolve around her to begin with, which could reveal parts of her perspective on herself and your relationship.

If you feel comfortable answering and if it isn’t too blunt, did you make decisions solely based on what she decided?