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April 30, 2018 at 6:13 am
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AnonymousGuest
Dear Mika:
Your thoughts read reasonable to me; you are making good sense.
It is a good thought: two people fearing abandonment getting together and providing that comfort for each other, neither abandoning the other. It is easy to think this, to put it in a sentence like I just did. But in real life, any one of the two people fearing abandonment, coming together are more likely to abandon the other because of this fear.
anita
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