Dear John:

All emotions are made possible by drugs, internally released, natural drugs if not otherwise. Thing is, there can be love and understanding. It doesn’t have to be love or understanding. I suggest you get more understanding of the relationship so to supplement the drug with rational. After all, you need the rational so to make good choices for yourself.

If you agree and you would like to, let’s look into this:

You wrote in your original post, “I started only thinking about my needs instead of hers also”. In your recent post you wrote: “I was too blinded by my own needs to see what was really happening”.

What were those needs, how did you pursue those needs with her, and what was happening that you missed (can you elaborate on what you already shared on the matter)?

anita