Hi Paul,

It sounds like you are coping amazingly well with the end of your marriage and are doing all the right things which is really inspiring.

My thoughts are that it has only been 4 months so it’ not that long, and not being with someone now doesn’t mean you will not be able to settle down or have children. It sounds like if you and your wife weren’t happy it was the right thing for both of you. Women don’t just want rich  guys- for me chemistry and the kind of conversations and whether a person ‘gets’ you is key. Don’t be too hard on yourself.

You could read a book called ‘unstuck’ which has some helpful advice about getting things moving on again- basically highlighting action is key (which it sounds like you are doing).

It sounds like you are doing really well. It’ just having the energy to keep up all your good work on days when you don’t feel like it (easier said than done I know!)

Take good care of yourself.