Dear June:

I am wondering regarding your example of when he was sick and in the hospital, you wrote: “He was cold fever, vomited… That was middle of the night, and I was so worried about him.  I called him like 5 times, texted him a lot.” –

Did you consider, while worried about him, that he needs quiet, that he needs rest and therefore you shouldn’t keep calling and texting him, that instead you should wait for him to get back to you, or wait until the next day, so to give him a chance to rest and recover?

anita