Dear John:

I read only a part of your recent post because I need to get away from the computer. Will read and reply when I am back, in about sixteen hours. Maybe other members will reply before I am back.

One point regarding what I did read: before you talk to your current girlfriend, think and figure out what you don’t need to tell her, what will not be useful to tell her. Say just enough to accomplish your goal (to take a temporary or permanent break from the relationship with her).

anita