From what you have said, I think in your situation, it will be best to give the relationship a try when your emotions don’t overpower you. Right now, that is the case. If you don’t mind me asking- what are you doing in your career sphere, as in you feel your parents will allow you if you have a great career, so are you studying or working, what exactly are you pursuing right now?

Also, make sure that he has stopped all contact with the “Unworthy one”. And by all, I mean all. Boys find an excuse to stay in touch. I remember this ex of mine, he left me because he felt he found his TRUE love, I was sad but not devastated because I felt TRUE love is rare and he should pursue her. Turns out she stayed with him for her financial needs, left him within two months and wanted me to take him back. I told him that it was not possible because I want to be single till I feel I have found MY Truelove.  So, this guy tried numerous ways, kept video calling me, calling me and stuff. I asked him to stop contacting me as I felt it would make things complicated. He was of a different community, a Marwari to be exact and my parents are very rigid regarding caste. So About a year later, this ex of mine is dormant and we do talk but only on festivals and birthdays. no emotions involved. I was happy in my life, doing very well in college, excelling in everything I touched and Felt like Midas. I meet a man from a different state and fall in love, however, before embarking on a love affair, I ask him his caste as this is important to my parents and we belonged to the same caste. even for me, relationships are something permanent, If I am putting efforts, I want results. So this relationship was when I felt I found my true love, but due to some health issues, I came back to my home state, where my ex, lived.

He tried offering me company in ABSENCE of my partner. I felt disgusted and would not respond to him after that. Cut to a month later, he calls, then texts then calls ….texts said it was an emergency. I picked up the call to help and got to know that the emergency was that he was having trouble with a girl he loves. LOVES. okay, I help him and he thanks me and seems to me all is fine.

Exactly three months later, I get to know through mutual friends and FB that he is engaged to a girl he loves, excited for him I tell my friends that Yes I know he loves her and I tell them the girl’s name. They laughed at me saying that the girl’s name is something else and they have been in love with her for two-three now.

turns out he left me for someone else, asked me for help when he was in love with someone else and was marrying someone else. He lied about the number of years they were together for. It was exactly three months.

So boys can be easily swayed… some guys remain loyal but even the most loyal ones stray off the path once or twice.

the guy I said I found true love with, I immersed myself too much like I said I do and He left. there were many reasons involved but my extreme love and the insecurity it produces was also a major reason.

So, Happi please tell him to wait for you again till you are not so much in love. That old relationship is dead and if you continue with that, it will cause you pain. I can guarantee either he will cheat on you or YOU will break up because the old love will not exist.

Give yourself time to move on and then start over afresh if you still really want to.