Dear heavyheart:

I am confused myself. You told him: “I now believe that we can do it if we do this together. After I say all that, he told me that he was confused“.

Did you tell him that now you want to marry him, that you are willing and able to marry him regardless of the religious difference?

If this is what you clearly told him, will you be having problems with your family for marrying a man of a different religion? If so, did you discuss this with your parents, and did you tell your (not) boyfriend about such discussion and that you (?) are willing to go against your parents’ wishes?

This is my confusion. I wonder what his confusion is about, what he is not clear about.

anita