Dear heavyheart:

For seven years you were certain he is not husband material, so you wrote, because he is of a different religion and your parents will disapprove.

Suddenly, in a very short time, and under the influence of strong emotions (once he was in contact with another woman), you changed your mind.

Problem is, he is still of another religion, your parents will still disapprove, and the only difference now from the seven long years is the emerging of your fear of losing him. This leads me to think that if the guy will answer you with a Yes, and your fear and current strong emotions subside, you might withdraw again with a No, the same No as before.

What do you think?

anita