I did send him a nice email Alicya informing him that I had no hard feelings, and hope everything was going well for him, but I needed to know what was going on, because of our shared bank account, and he didn’t respond, nor has he called me. He couldn’t even give me that. He knows very well how hurt I am, and is in no way, shape or form going to try reaching out to me, because he is way too much of a coward. It is going on three weeks. The guy used me, got bored, and is now not wanting anything to do with me. Depressed my a**. I am moving on, however, getting ready to move into my new apartment, and am very regretful that I ever had a relationship with this person. He knows very well that he hurt me by dropping out of my life with no warning. Throwing all the romantics out of it, what about the friendship? That is what I miss the most. How could he have betrayed me like this is beyond me. The least he could’ve done is let me know he didn’t want to be in the relationship anymore. How funny that his dropping out of sight coincides right when I am renting the new apartment and the extra funds I used to help him were drying up. He knew this too, because I told him that I wouldn’t be able to help him as much financially, because my apartment was going to be over $1,000 a month. He even tried to talk me out of moving out of my dad’s house, so I would always have extra money. When I think of the extra money I spent on this guy, and him never buying me anything in return should’ve been enough of an answer that he didn’t really care about me. He was just having fun for a little while, and as soon as the money stopped being available he suddenly had to stop all communication with someone who helped him feed his freakin family! I helped pay his utility bills, gas, groceries, you name it. He even told me that he would’ve “sunk” without my help. That is the thanks I get in return. He drops out of my life with no warning, and gives me some stupid excuse that he will contact me when his “mind, body & spirit” are in place. Well, he can blow! I am, I suppose in the angry stage of this situation, compared to the hurt stage I was in last week & the week before. Hey, it is his loss! I was a true friend when he needed it the most, and now that the money isn’t as available, he suddenly can’t talk to me anymore. Liar!