Dear sunchild:

You are welcome. You wrote that you don’t know how to proceed.

You wrote: “I tried to explain this was my time to change and grow, I needed love and support from them and I am still met with anger“. Previously you wrote: “I am trying to respect my time.. when I communicate this.. it is met with anger and blame by my friends”

Can you give an example (maybe that big argument you had three days ago) including what you said and what she said, then what you said and so forth?

A detailed example can help me understand better and hopefully to suggest something useful about how you may choose to proceed.

anita