Hi Anita,

I received an email from the bank yesterday that my ex had requested a change in address on my bank account & I was livid…I called & the bank told me he would need to change it back since he was attached to the account for some reason, even after I personally went to the bank to have everything changed over a month ago.

I called him & left a message & he called back, hateful and a high pitched voice telling me he didn’t do anything, all he said he did was order checks.  But he did say he knew the account had been closed, so I don’t feel he was being truthful.  He was so hateful & he  told me he had a few things here he would like to have, but would pick them up when he was ready.  I told him to come today which is his day off & he said it wasn’t good for him, that he would call sometime in the next few weeks and let me know.  I told him no, he needed to get them now.  Then he asked why I was in a hurry to have him get them, that that I should just leave them where they were until he could come by.  Then he asked why I requested he get his things which were in my attic a few weeks ago, which he did pick up. He said that wasn’t necessary, they could have stayed in the attic & they were not hurting anything…

My question is why do you think is won’t pick them up & be done with it & why can’t he talk in a civil tone when we are on the phone.  In person he is not such an ass, but on the phone he turn in to a complete jerk.  When I asked him to stop yelling he said his door was closed at work and he wasn’t.

Why do you think he won’t just get his things and be done with it.  I told him I was moving on and wanted nothing of his here and he seems to think there is nothing wrong with him waiting…It is driving me crazy… One thing is a box of his old family pictures, or I would just throw everything away!

Bella~