Dear Bella:

As to why he is in no rush to pick up the rest of his belongings, possible reasons:

1. He doesn’t care for those belongings, doesn’t care about having them or not.

2. His place is crowded and he doesn’t have space for much more.

3. He wants  to keep you in his life in some way, to have a reason to stay in contact.

4. He wants you to suffer and he wants to keep hearing you distressed.

5. He is thinking about the possibility of moving back in with you.

Which one or a combination of the above do you think is true?

anita