Hi Anita,

You will love this one…I received an email yesterday about him changing  the address which would have sent my bank info & account to his new address which was on my e-mail I  & drove by the house…He is indeed living with her in a 1000 sq. ft 80 yr. old home in a bad part of town about 25 min from where we lived on the lake in a large home w/ golf course & a great part of town…He had a 400 sq. ft. master bedroom and his own newly remodeled  bathroom with a 4 x 8 ft shower that he loved all the privacy we just had done a year ago because he is 6 2′ also with a cal. king bed off the side of the house with a private balcony~

Not trying to brag but when I saw the house I felt so good, because I amagned he was in a similar home because he wanted our new house with more privacy by itself and a 3 car garage.  Where he now is in the middle of a bunch of houses w/no garage & NO privacy!! Also somehow he had a new camper hooked to his truck…So I guess he went on a purchase binge…

I also found out when w spoke briefly yesterday I asked him why he cheated and he said he didn’t,  that he only communicated with this girl months before he left and then he moved in with her only after 2 weeks which she can’t be much to do such a thing.  I hope once he stops the weekend summer trips and outings and the honeymoon is over, because it will … he is miserable!

He always told me he wanted to live out away from everything and be alone, that is why I purchased the property for us to build on last year which he still said he wanted me to GIVE it to him for 1/3 of what I paid so he could BUILD HER a house…

Also I found out she is 14 yrs. younger that I am (IT bothered me a lot) & (I don’t know what she looks like, just a lot younger),  I guess he now has a new young girl…

I feel he is angry as you said about the house deal going through & his moving into the tiny house with a girl he barley knew, you  know as well as I do, you can’t know someone for 2 weeks and make a transition like that & the relationship having much of a chance to amount to much.

One thing, he was still very hateful yesterday for no reason when we spoke and didn’t seem like the man I knew and I told him so…I told him the kind man I met years ago was gone…

Everyone that knows the situation said he probably left because of what you mentioned.  Me changing and messing up his plans.  I did basically take such good care of him, making sure he always had nice dress clothes for work and usually whatever he needed I would make sure I got him on Birthdays and Christmas…I didn’t just buy him things, it was always a holiday…I was good to him & he always told me he felt good about it because in his other relationship his money was spent on wife and kids…

Bella~