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July 11, 2018 at 10:58 am
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PeterParticipant
Tiny Butterfly you break my heart. I very much relate when my mother passed away… I felt both grief and relief, sadness and shame…
Everything you wrote about how your feeling is understandable. We love and we hope and we fear and all these thoughts arise, some that leave us feeling ashamed perhaps that we can’t be as selfless as we imagine we are “supposed” to be. I don’t think there’s one way where “supposed” to be or feel.
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 