Mark – His reason was he was drunk…although he admitted he knew what he was doing.  We “philosophized” about the reasons and although we could not pin point one… he did mention he had switched jobs recently and is not making the money he used to and was feelin bad about himself, it was the anniversary of a very bad injury he had (27 years ago) which caused him to lose a limb, he had been looking for a roomate and I told him I would NOT be okay with him having a female roomate and maybe he was retaliating. All of the above were “reasons” why.  We have a great relationship, we have fun, we really dont fight, we have a lot of sex…so I was confused and HEARTBROKEN that this happenEd.  I just want to be able to trust him again.  I do feel like it was an “ego” thing for him…  like “I still go it”.  I dont know.  I would like to think that…maybe?

If he does cheat again he will be loosing one of his most prized possessions….. ME!

Does it sound to you like was a one time thing?  Do his reasons make sense?