I thought about the the guilt thing too.  She supposedly knew about me and he knew about her husband so I am not sure why else he would have to move my picture if she already knew and didnt care.    So I guess the “guilt” is a better scenerio than him trying to HIDE me.  …  I think…  I hope.    I have ALWAYS said I would never stay if someone cheated on me.  This is the first time I have been in a situation like this and I am trying to get over it.  Now its more about the betrayal and the insecurities it brought out in me. And I am almost “disappointed” in myself for staying because it is against what I always said I would do.  But I guess you never know until you are in a situation.  I have very good intuition so I just have to trust that if this happens again I will find out and I will know what to do.  He can have this “get out of jail free” card for now.  If he is being honest about the situation and the reasoning etc.  Its still hard to think someone was being untrue to me and this is supposed to be my partner.  I guess time will tell if I will truly be able to accept this or not.  Right now I am trying But I have not gotten to the acceptance part of it yet.