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Dear Claudia;
Maybe he blocked you because his new girlfriend pressured him to do so, and for fear of losing her he blocked you, to please her.
Back to the quote in my last post to you: “I just don’t know what changed or if it was all a lie”. I am thinking that part of your emotional experience of the relationship led you to believe it was different from what it really was, meaning, you felt so much for him that you believed he loved you just as much, in the same way. And so, it is not that the relationship was all a lie, but part of it was your make-believe.
To know what is really going on, to see reality as it is, it takes a combination of logic and emotion. It can be quite tricky when emotions are strong.
Do you think this statement may be true, that he loved you but not as much as you thought he did?
anita