Hi jdkm,

Your new boyfriend is super fit, and I’m assuming he could get any girl he wanted based on being a good looking nice guy alone. Think of it this way: He chose YOU! And he’s still with YOU! This thought could theoretically give you mammoth insecurities or actually make you more secure. Choose the Secure Option. Even if you lose him (for whatever reason), because you dated someone like him, you KNOW you could attract a quality person again! Own it!

And now ask yourself this: What if you did break up (for whatever reason)? This could statistically eventually happen. Not everyone we go out with is destined to be our forever partner (obviously). Now answer the question in your mind. Imagine that possibility. And be OK with it. You would be OK. Vow to enjoy this relationship no matter how long it lasts.

Best,

Inky