Thank you for responding. No explanation for ghosting me. He attempted to put it on me and say that he did not hear from me. I was like really, wtf….He was being his old self like nothing happened.   He told me “he was concerned about me and was hoping I was doing fine and not lonely”  What did he mean by that? Was he sincere? really? I went right back to the past for a moment when he texted. I caught myself and told him I was just doing fine. It truly threw me off  but for a half a day.

In my head this whole 9 months I had been weeding out his presence. He kept texting me and I just stopped and did not respond. All these feeling I was feeling had me in a whirlwind so it felt.

The next day I texted him telling him that  we have grown apart and that I moved on as he did. I did not know what he wanted from me and that I am working on myself and that I just don’t need to be involved no more. He texted me back saying that you could at least say hello. Weird ….Mixed signals is what I m getting now. This whole time he could not call on the phone and talk with me. What was up with that? Maybe another red flag right?

I know now what I must do for my peace of mind and for me. So much to work on …I can’t continue this relationship nor can I be his friend.  And after soulful dialogue…. I will tell him this relationship is not serving me and I will walk away in peace. Whew…I can do this….