Anita,

I don’t know that he is handling things easily, but it just seems that way. From him ignoring me to his social media posts, he seems to be moving on quicker, but that could just be a front that he is putting on.

My insecurities were mainly triggered by social media. He follows thousands of attractive females on Instagram and is constantly liking their pictures. I would never tell him to delete it or unfollow them but I voiced my being uncomfortable always seeing his likes. It made me feel like I was competing or being compared. He made no attempt to stop or to comfort me which just made matters worse.

This is why I feel like being single and gaining some perspective will be good, as I will be able to be confident on my own and independent without him. I have realized that I can only find reassurance within myself.