Dear Dario:

He has been consistent in his rejection of a relationship with you, consistent and clear: “He told me the person that loved me is no longer there and he couldn’t be that person again”; can’t be more clear than that.

You wrote, “I truly love him and believe he is the one. I always saw us getting married….”, and you asked: “Am I reading him wrong?” I would say, reads to me, that he does care for you but does not love you the way he used to, and so, yes, you are wrong to believe somewhat that he loves you in a way that would motivate him to restart a relationship with you of the kind that can lead to marriage.

Your feeling that he is the one, is just that, a feeling, your feeling.

“How can I be in love with somebody after two years of breaking up?” – it can be, happened before to other people and it didn’t mean to them, to many of them, I figure, that there was a meaning to it, something like: I am not over him because it is meant to be, fate, or such.

I suppose the relationships you did start after the breakup were not that good, so what you had with him shines in comparison. Am I correct?

(And his issues of trust, I wonder what those are? There may be something important there that I didn’t consider in my answer to you at this point)

anita