Dear Anita,

Thank you for your time, you seem like a benevolent person 🙂

I don’t know if I have the courage to tell her. I think I will just drift away, if that is okay. I haven’t been sharing much with her anymore, we barely talk and I don’t make many efforts to see her. So I guess I have already started to drift away :/

Thank you, they made sure I would not do to others what I would not want them to do to me.

Well, I have been thinking and no, I wouldn’t say they (especially my mother) made me feel like my feelings were important as well.

For example, even though she was supporting me and she did say their behavior was really wrong, she also made me feel like I had my share of responsability because I was not firm and strong enough to confront those kids. She asserted that if I wasn’t afraid and if I faced them properly, they would probably stop. I don’t know if that is true, but I don’t think it is relevant to blame a bullied kid. But of course, she had great qualities otherwise