Hi Anita,

My exact feelings about the Birthday, I just didn’t want to seem uncaring on his Birthday, but you are right…I would wait for a response & he doesn’t deserve my caring about him, or to wish him a Happy Birthday…In all Honesty, I hope he is miserable.

Another thing, the man I am seeing today would run for the hills if he thought I still had feelings for my ex.  He is up to date on the relationship & told me weeks ago when he was listening to me cry about the break-up, told me I deserved better & I needed to move on.  That is one big plus with him is we both know one anothers past & the current situations.  So, there is no deceit, or having to try & be someone we are not.  Everything is out on the table…100% honesty…

I do listen to what he is saying & ask questions with him so I can learn more about his feelings.  Like I said earlier, I am leaving the door open to the possibilities, but am not jumping in to anything.  Sad but, I want to be over my ex 99.99% before I would get involved with him.  I am respectful to his commitment issues & would not want to falsely lead him in to anything.

I am so glad I have you to bounce things off of.  You are like my New Best Friend Anita~

Bella~