Dear Ladybug:

It could be the fight, preparing for the fight, the physical and mental stress, his physical pain that you mentioned, then the fight happened only a couple of weeks ago, or so. He is probably still recovering from the physical and mental strain and that can explain his significantly lower sex drive.

I would suggest that you don’t panic, that you give it time. I am thinking the worst a woman can do is to pressure a man to have more sex. And he responds badly to any pressure (“I at the time put a lot of pressure on him and he just bailed on everything”, you wrote in your most recent post).

I would say, don’t pressure, don’t suggest, let it be, and when it does happen, enjoy the experience.

anita