sunnycloud,

I would worry that your boyfriend 1) does not respect and trust you enough to take in your concerns and 2) that he is not discerning enough, i.e. blinded that his gay friend is duplicitous such as lying about your non-existent cheating and dating his friend.

I would be concerned about his friend ruining your relationship.  I really don’t have any ideas about how to deal with this except to talk honestly with your bf, perhaps even show him your post and what I said about his trust and respect of you and how shady his gay friend is.

Mark