Dear Cali Chica:

“My sister told me that my mother is constantly pushing her to reach out to me”. By having told you that, she made that reaching out happen.

“I want to talk to her to make sure her husband is not treating her bad and putting negative pressure on her”- your sister made it possible for your mother to talk to you. You heard what your mother said.

So yes, I agree with your recent post of this morning, “no reason to inform me about anything… being the ‘middle’ person”.

anita