Dear Princess123:

I re-read your post before last. In it you wrote that your boyfriend invaded your privacy once, not repeatedly. I understand now. Regarding your question about you falling out of love easily, in this new relationship and the ones before: there is the fact that our feelings change, not being the same all the time, like I wrote before, nothing to be alarmed about. Then there is the fact that a man’s behavior in the relationship with you makes some difference in how you feel about him.

There is one other factor: it happens that people lose their in-love feeling so to protect themselves from future hurt. The emotional logic of this is: if I don’t love him anymore, then I will not get hurt when he stops loving me/ when he leaves me/ when something bad happens. If this is what is true to you, then it is likely to happen no matter who the man is, no matter how loving and trustworthy.

Can this be the reason for you falling out of love?

anita