Dear Princess123:

Consider this: your heart was broken when your last boyfriend disappeared from your life. You are afraid that your heart will be broken if your current boyfriend will leave you, but it is already broken. The pain you are afraid to feel in the future, you’ve been feeling ever since the breakup before.

This means that you are not in danger, that you were in danger (the other guy left you without stating a reason) and you survived that danger. Now you can survive this guy leaving you, if that happens.

anita