I’ve done quite a bit of research and some guys can’t make a woman their first priority until they have found themselves or achieved certain goals. I know he is the kinda guy who is very driven by success. It’s as if he’s career comes before anybody else on this earth. Recently he has had the realisation that the order of his life should be God, family then career and I hope he gets his life in order and realize I’m here to grow with him and not add weight onto his shoulders. The next couples months or even years he may not give me the type of effort and undevided focus and attention I’d like but I have to trust that he is working hard to create successful life for himself and for us and not make him feel guilty for it.