Dear Mathilde-S:

Notice how he behaves with other people in his life. For example, does he offer to pick others up at the airport and then follows through.. but makes an exception with you? Or regarding texting, does he text someone else regularly, but not you?

If his behaviors are consistent with everyone in his life, that does mean that .. this is the way he is. Then you can decide if you want to accept him the way he is or not.  If you do, then accept that you will need to be directive with him, that is, if you want to be picked up from the airport, tell him specifically when and where and remind him, doing what it takes to make it happen.

anita