Hi Anita and Ayumi,

Such a nice coincidence that my case is similar to yours and I cant help registering to the forum to reply. Anita, your questions are logical so could I also present my case?

1. I kept suggesting a break multiple times whenever we couldnt reach an agreement in order to make him compromise. He did to a certain extent at first but gradually fed up with me and ignored me.

2. I said lots of harsh words and insutled him alot as Im very bad-tempered and becoz what he did to me is quite disrespectful, i.e. didnt show up on plans and didnt explain, didnt sorry etc

3. I started the fight few months ago and since then we never actually rekindled as he kept avoiding me when Im mad rather than mutual discussion, which drives me crazy and more and more mad over the months.

Thanks alot.