Here recently when I told him that I would be willing to untie my tubes the response that I got was that it would cost to much. As far as I know over the last 3 years he has been faithful … I have asked him if he is just keeping his options open and he tells me he has had options and has never taken those opportunities because that’s not what he wants. and that he is not a unfaithful person.

As far as my kids go, he says hi to them and isn’t rude but try’s to come when they are not around because he says its not far to them to if he is around them but yet we don’t even no what is going to happen to us.

I feel like it is just one excuse after another. Yes the whole kid thing is a big deal I understand that but he knew that three years ago. I don’t want to believe that he has used me because I whole heartily believe he has had other woman offer to be with him and if he really wanted he would had been gone a long time ago. is that dumb of me to think?