Hi Silvina,

Time to change the script here: Your old boyfriend blew it. HE made his bed. Let HIM lie in it. You broke up with him because the relationship was unstable and he was constantly lying.

Why would you dump a truthful, wonderful, committed being for the HIGH RISK of jumping back together with a liar you always fought with? Would the renewed relationship magically be more stable this time? If you had never met your old boyfriend, would you break up with your current boyfriend? I would break up with your new boyfriend ONLY because you don’t really love him. But here’s the thing: if you do, DON’T run immediately back to Mr. Trouble. Or you’ll REALLY be kicking yourself!

Good Luck,

Inky