Dear Cali Chica:

You didn’t come across to me as arrogant. Your story about your husband’s friends from medical school becoming more distant because of his soon to be wife reminds me of a friend I had who unfortunately no longer was a friend once he met his to be wife and his ownership by her was established. All communication with him had to go through her and that was no fun. So it ended. Not the same story but new relationship entering the mix change the old.

anita