Dear risha:

Yes, he left you for his Parents, just like you wrote in the title of your thread. You wrote Parents with a capital P. Indeed a child does view his/ her parents as Gods. Even though your now ex boyfriend is an adult, he still views his parents as gods. What are the chances of a mortal like you to be heard when the Gods voice their command…

Here is the reason why marrying him would have been a bad, bad idea for you: “he told me no matter what they say and do I need to keep my mouth shut… I only told him they are been selfish and how can they treat me this way”

If you married him, he would have continued to insist that you submit to his parents’ abuse, that you accept and endure whatever mistreatment they chose for you.

I understand that you miss him and that you are lonely, but at least you are not submitting to abuse, at least you are not owned by his parents.

I hope you post again with your thoughts and feelings and I do hope you feel better soon.

anita