Hi Anita,

Thank you very much for your kind words. Yes I totally agree with you and that’s why I didn’t wanna go between him and his parents bcoz he respects and loves his parents a lot. but due to this issues there were plenty of times where I hurt him by blocking him and ignoring his calls and mesaages  but no matter what I do he tries to somehow reach me but this year april I went overseas for two weeks to my brothers place and i shut him off entirely and he couldn’t contact me anyway. once I came he was terrified and he cried and told he went through a lot and suffered a lot coz I blocked him.

therafter I saw some changes but still he kept in touch. however yesterday was the worst day in my life. he messaged me and told he got a proposal and the horoscopes are matching n that hes gonna get married. he sent me pic of girl who comes for a project work to our office. he said he was gonna get married to her n to forget him. I didn’t believe him coz I thought he was trying to gain attention coz deep down my heart I knew he will never leave me for someone else other than his parents. but unfortunately he sent few screen shots of the conversation where that girl says she loves him n etc. I was very hurt and shocked.

he told she likes him a lot n they started chatting while I was overseas since he had nobody n frustrated he had been having conversations with her.

my whole world fell apart I know our relashionship had problems bcoz of his parents n I wanted him to leave me but I didn’t expect a girl to come between us that fast. he has been chatting since april and he decides to marry her and both his parents and her parents havae approved. I didn’t know what to do or say whereas I was with him for seven years and he couldn’t do any justice to me. how far does he know her to decide shes his life partner. I was very hurt didn’t expect this from him he just dumped me just like that told me that hes sorry and to forgive him and he will always love me. I just wished him good luck and walked out with a lot of questions in my mind.

how did he change so fast? how can he forget me and he has been chatting with her behind my back. he told he decided to move coz he wanted me to hate him so that I too find someone and move so I had to say thank you very much for everything eventhough it was so hurtful.

even after his parents disagreed he was still faithful to me and he never left me but after he met this girl how can he decide to move so quickly I’m really sad I was up whole night crying I blocked him and I was crying and even today I cant make up my mind as how could he change and how can he move on leaving me alone after 7 years. did he have to wait 7 years to this to me. I don’t know if I led him the path to reach her coz during the time ignored thats where he got connected to her. I don’t kknow if am to blame me or blame him. but my life has been a nightmare since last night. I don’t want to go to office I don’t want to do anything else I don’t want to face the word. just want to sit and cry cry and cry coz I miss him so much . please help need some advice to overcome coz I feel blamimg myself too and I fell hes taken revenge from me for ignoring me