Hi Laika,

Long distance relationships are tough. It’s OK to say, “It’s not working”. You don’t need a reason to break up with someone. Even if he was perfectly perfect, this long distance thing would still bother you, methinks. It’s hard enough to control someone local, but getting annoyed at him long distance because he won’t find a job? Forget about it! Don’t be surprised if he breaks up with you!

“Laika, it’s not working. It’s bad enough it’s long distance and now you’re harping on me?”

THEN you’d be annoyed. How dare he!

Imagine how his beleaguered mother feels.

Inky