Dear Jenny

I agree with Anita. I’m not aware of many people who have good under standing of the  “infinite nature of love”  especially as it relates to the idea’s we have about sex, intimacy and commitment. Your husband can love his friend without having sex with her. That he feels that sex is needed in order for him to express that love suggests that his understanding of the “infinite nature of love” needs more depth.

There are those that can handle a open marriage however such a thing requires really, really, really good communicators skills on all parties evolved. My observations, few have those skills and eventually all open relationships end.