Dear Risha:

You wrote about him earlier: “he always wanted a kushi life with no struggle no stress spending lavishly and a bit of a show off.. I have helped him so many ways. Even financially”. You wrote about his girlfriend: “his girl is 28 and a well qualified professional… I feel he can do good in life and his life will  be sorted with this girl coz he’s not very stable in life yet. So most probably that also would have been the reason to move out for his own benefit”-

This may be the answer to your question in your most recent post (“Can people change their feelings towards someone else so fast..?”)-

It may be that a big part of his feelings toward you have been about you being way more financially stable than him. After all, it is an emotional motivation, to gain financial security, to make up for his financial lack via association with a woman who does better than him.

He found a replacement then,  if I am correct, a younger woman (to satisfy his parents’ requirement) and a woman who is financially stable. He feels safe now via association with her when in the past he felt safe via association with you.

What do you think?

anita