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Update! I had sent the bastard an email a couple of months after he stopped communicating with me. Here is what I wrote:
I want you to be VERY aware that I am extremely disappointed, disgusted and honestly, quite sad that you misrepresented yourself to me as that of a caring friend, someone I could confide in, and someone that I genuinely was extremely fond of. However, it turns out that all I was, was a temporary toy for you to play with and use. When you got bored, I wasn’t even worth a lousy phone call, text or email explaining why. When I think of all the support, encouragement and care that I generously gave to you, it makes me embarrassed & ashamed the person receiving my attentions didn’t give one shit about me, not even as a friend. I guess you figured everyone else has taken my kindness for granted, so why not do the same! Whatever the decision was, I would’ve respected your choice 100%, no questions asked. Obviously, the feeling wasn’t ever mutual, because I was discarded like an empty beer can. I didn’t need this done to me, especially after what I have been put through in my life. I needed a friend, not someone to prey on my kindness & generosity. Let me be perfectly clear on something. This isn’t about being upset about anything other than you not having the
decency to let me know. You thought that ridiculous email about your job was good enough? Would it have killed you to take five minutes to shoot me a text or email to let me know that you didn’t want to talk to me any longer?
In closing, you caused me massive confusion, hurt, embarrassment and humiliation. That is what I deserved after being so generous with you? Don’t worry. You won’t ever hear from me again. Your stupid secret is safe. I want you to know what an absolute shitty & cowardly thing that was to do to someone. You are definitely not the person I thought you were…
I never got a response, of course. However, last week at 1 am, someone texted me. I was very groggy from being in a deep sleep and looked at my phone. Low & behold it was from the bastard’s cell #. Here is what he texted me at 1 am:
Your email was dead on after I read it.. im a piece of shit…thats why im where im at…
Okay, I would very much like to get opinions on what this text meant, and why this jerk bothered sending it. Was he hoping I’d respond? I am 99.9% positive he was drunk.