Dear Ali:

Putting aside for now the offensive easy meat phrase used, or some similar phrase, I see that your obsessive thinking about your boyfriend is like you suggested, exaggerated, way exaggerated, that is, it is not based on evidence in reality. It is not different from any other obsessive thinking, excessive worrying fueled by anxiety. I would say the problem here is your anxiety, not his behavior.

Before obsessing about him, before the relationship with him, you experienced anxiety otherwise, correct?

* will be back to the computer in a few hours or so.

anita