Dear Anja:

You asked for advice, here is my advice to you:

1. Stop watching porn (“I do watch porn, I have the majority of my life… this fear rooted from over excessive use of porn. I would watch porn at most 5-6 times a day”).

2. Stop smoking marijuana (“I also have been smoking marijuana since high school, in which has been very detrimental for me through out my life”).

3. Attend psychotherapy so to manage and heal from your anxiety (“I’ve suffered with anxiety my whole life”).

You are now focused on the issue of sexual orientation but your issue is not your sexual orientation but your obsessive thinking which is fueled by anxiety.

anita