* Dear Lee: I am glad you are posting here and if you would like to start your own thread, I will be glad to communicate with you there. As far as asking a person questions, I didn’t mean to ask him questions the way a police officer would ask a suspect, or a prosecutor would ask a defendant, but to ask questions instead so to learn about him. When suspicion is there, it is there, but care needs to be placed on not asking questions in an accusatory way. Instead, focus is on the long term objective of learning who is the person we are in a relationship with, as well as developing the skill itself of asking-for-information.

anita